but my husband wants me to modify it like add spoilers and such stuff.......what should i do..

nah keep it stock because spoilers and mag wheels just attract the police to pull you over lol

I wish I had your problem, I am thinking whether I should buy new tires for my bicycle :), just tell your husband to add stuff to his car not yours.

hey, dun freak out!
if ur hubby really is in 2 these stuff, and u dun wanna upset him, juz talk it over and try to persuade him not to modify the car.
find out 'bout the disadvantages 'bout modfing the car and tell him.
if that doesnt work, try to modify the car only by a little bit. discuss it with him and see what you'll can do.